Couple talk

As a couple, you create your own rituals together.
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They become something that can shape your family life
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They can be about birthdays and how you celebrate them
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Or they can be about a particular person
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One might like a quiet occasion
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Another a noisy party with lots of friends
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But then this only happens when you share with each other what makes it special for you
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Amazing thing is how often couples or families even do not ask each other what they want
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What is important to them
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Tell each other what your perfect day or occasion would be and then see if you can provide that for each other.
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Something simple such as presents
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They are not simple at all
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They are important visual symbols of love for some.
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For others presents do not matter because they can feel loved in other ways.
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Presents for some while it is words for others
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Then there are actions we take that are important for each of us
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The time we spend is another
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For each one of us responds differently
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And one or two of these will be the way that we naturally feel loved and appreciated.
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Some of us will need the right words and also love presents.
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For many people buying presents for friends and finding out what they would really like is a turn on.
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For some notice what they do for others it tells us what they probably like themselves 
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If someone is always giving compliments and saying nice things, then words are it 
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On the other hand if they are always doing nice things for others then actions may be it.
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Another clue is to listen to what they complain about
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This the more so when they are feeling unappreciated and unloved.
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Is it true that you help each other?
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Do you spend enough quality time with each other?
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If your partner has different needs do you know them?
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Discover what she likes and make sure that you are showing her love in that way.
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Couple talk can be a powerful cement in any relationship it can also hide the cracks unless we make the effort to learn about each others needs
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Couple talk