Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Being apart


Being apart is seldom easy.

Learning to make it easier is the best one can do.

No worrying, no fears, no constant thinking, no going down.

Focus on the day you have and get the most out of it.

Focus on this minute now and stay in it, no drifting off.

Come to the end of the day and be glad to get there in one piece.

Spend the evenings softly doing things you never had time for when you were together.

Watch mindless crap on TV for a while, let go, no thinking.

Come to sleep time send love to your partner, day over.

Day after day live your life.

Don't waste it in useless pain.

Your reality is as it is, live it.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Anthony,
I read you blog all the time, it simplifies things for me, tremendously.
What is 'Useless Pain' though ? How do you explain the tragedy of falling in love and then letting go and losing it. Is there a logic to it ? Is it really better to have loved and lost , than not loved at all?
Please write some of your thoughts on 'lost love', it is a mystery which I have never understood. Why does it hurt so much ?