Something in the air maybe
Iffy days are fear days because at the base of your iffy feeling is fear
What to do?
Get active
Do anything that stops you thinking about yourself and how bad everything is
The more you can stop yourself thinking about yourself the quicker the iffy day goes
Usually they last about half a day unless you are seriously depressed
If you are seriously depressed then get help
If like most of us you can usually feel OK then half a day is about how long it lasts
To reduce their frequency requires that you deal with the causes
The causes are your fears
Know yours?
Probably not, fears are things we hide from ourselves most fiercely because they make us frightened
The last thing we like looking at is our fears
So yes we hide them usually very deeply
Getting them out and understanding them is the way to eliminating iffy days
Yes it is work
No it is not easy
Yes it is worth the effort
Start by finding what you are frightened of
Get help if you do not know how.
Iffy days get less and less in proportion to the fears you remove
Not just fears your honesty with yourself and reality
If you are not honest about things then the iffy days can multiply because they have fertile ground to feed on
Simple equation iffy days = my fears and honesty with myself
How often do you have iffy days?
Tells you where you are
No pretending you are different
If you have frequent ifffy days then time to recognize what is going on
There is no fooling nature she sees right through your games
Work to eliminate the causes
It makes life so much nicer to have fewer iffy days
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