What happens

When two selfish people marry or become partners

.
All goes well for a while while the excitement still tingles
.

While they both see personal gain and advantage

.
Then one wants to do something the other does not
.

End of relationship
.

One has gone after another perceived better opportunity
.

The other being left to cry a while before also starting over again
.
And so it can go on endlessly to the end of their lives
.
It does of course get emptier and emptierTill one day they are all alone
.
You see them everywhere sitting alone, walking alone, shopping alone, living aloneNot for you?
.
Then check yourself outAsk others how they find you
..
Nature works on the mirror principleWe tend to find and go with those who mirror ourselves
.
Don't like what you see then sort yourselfDo something worthwhile with your life
.
Not just for self, try doing things for others tooSimple little insight doing things for others brings more satisfaction than grabbing ever more for self
.
Being only interested or devoted to self leads to that emptiness and being alone
.
Helping others brings us to the pleasure of seeing others happy
.
Observe around you who has "got it" and who is always pushing and shoving
.
Be a giver not a grabber