What does?
Life
It has a funny way of doing so if you let it
So often we are trying to force things to go as we want them to, trying to make things happen
Sometimes this is fine and the correct way to behave
Other times though a little patience and nature shows us a better way
Difficulty is to know which is which for many people
So what to do?
Learn what distinguishes one from the other that's what
What is it that distinguishes a time to force things and a time to let them unfold?
Context is one
Feeling is another
Perspective
History
Precedent
Timing
Scale even
A whole range of things that make up the picture
Things we do automatically when considering our options
Without thinking we do many of them
Some we need to think about
Others we need to get advice and more input on
And often we try to reduce risk
To reduce exposure or imagined dangers
And we could go on and on however that would be to miss the point we want to make
And that is?
If your input is poor then there is a high chance that the outcome will not be as you want
If your judgement is skewed by your predjudices then the outcome will be skewed by them as well
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If your perceptions are skewed as well then double trouble
The clearer your knowledge of yourself the better you are likely to make better decisions
The more accurate your perceptions the better your decisions
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Then we come to letting it unfold
If we are all full of fear then we feel we must do something
If on the other hand we are chilled about life and whatever comes our way then letting things unfold is easier
Conversely being stressed does not allow us to wait, to watch
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Stress drives us, makes us blind to options
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Causes us to take actions that are premature, rushed
Way out?
Learn all you can about situations
Gather inputs from everywhere
Talk once you have information to those who can give you valuable objective inputs
Make decisions only where they are clearly necessary
Otherwise let events unfold
Let things show you the way forward
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