Some mothers

Come in all shapes and sizes

Not only are they physically different

They are also very different in how they perceive life

Some can even be selfish

If yours is one of these then beware

It is war because a selfish mother will not change without a fight.

If your mother is used to controlling you

Using you

Asking you why this, why that, then you have two choices

Become her poodle and lifelong servant

Or understand that you have the responsibility to lead your own life

The right even

You might choose to serve her if she is ill

However if this is not the case then decide are you being used and abused?

If you cannot see this then ask your siblings or friends what they see

If this is the case then invite her to get on with her own life

Tell her that you wish to get on with yours

That you do not wish to communicate all the time

Tell her what you find reasonable and stick to this

There will be many battles before selfish mothers allow their daughters to have their own lives

Daughters you choose

Poodle or freedom?