Sexual performance

Is something much written about

Much fantasised about

And oh so dangerous!

Where sex is fun it's great

Where it becomes laboured

Not so great

Sexual effort and pretence is just the harbinger of other troubles

If you are pretending then time to check out

Or ask yourself why am I doing this?

How long will I go on doing this?

Answer until I get real

Two choices carry on and find a way to improve your performance

Or admit that it is never getting better and time to talk and maybe check out

Either way it is not just the body

The mind has had it's say

Be honest because over time there is no hiding when the sexual urge has gone


When it's gone it's gone


If the relationship has other dimensions maybe fine if not then time to say goodbye