Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Cheating


Is something many do

Usually we think of cheating in the context of relationships

One partner is temped to go with someone else

For adventure

For sex

For reasons of spite
.
And last but not least because they have no courage to finish the relationship when it is not working
.
It seems easier to just try to slide away
.
To gently stop seeing the other partner
.
If this is you then time to learn to stand up and say the relationship is .
.
Finishing in a cowardly way is not cool
.
If something is over then have the respect for yourself and the other to say so
.
Cheating can also seem like fun to a selfish person
.
To have several partners at once
.
Not one is receiving an honest experience
.
All is lies and few of us appreciate this
.
If you are the cheating party then be warned one day you will experience the same
.
Think before you get into lying and cheating
.
It has a price
.
Sexually once one partner has betrayed the other then the special private aspect of the sexual relationship changes
.
This change usually means that the original tension or intimacy can never be recreated
.
If it can never be recreated then the relationship is put under strain as it is lacking one important aspect
.
This in turn leads to other problems, more strain
.
Sexual cheating has a price apart from any health issues
.
Cheating makes it difficult to respect yourself
.
If you cannot respect yourself then this creates real problems over time
.
Cheating might seem easy but in truth there is a high price to pay.

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