Beyond reason

And there is no communication possible in the situation

No way to influence totally unreasonably and selfish behaviour

Totally selfish and uncaring

Not easy particularly when you have to put up with it day in day out

Most of us will experience this at some time or another in our lives

For some this situation arises in relationships

For others at work

With neighbours

No matter the circumstances the stress and anger is the same

The idea of killing the other party comes to mind

Most of us resist this urge

What to do?

Given that it is a situation where for whatever reason we cannot force or oblige change

Must accept it day in day out

Where leaving or walking away are not options

We can decide to blank it out either literally or figuratively

This is not easy and not always possible

Decide to learn and grow from it

Yes in an otherwise perfect world this is a sensible option

Learn amazing patience

Again a good idea but not one that is easy to do while under pressure and frustration from selfish behavior

Learning patience that allows the behavior to pass us by without rancor or anger is a great idea but takes years of work to develop

So what can we really do?

Most importantly hold in mind that everything has a beginning, middle and end

Even if it takes years there is still a beginning ,middle and end

Where are you in the experience probably in the middle or end

If so then learn to live with

Derive pleasure from the moments when it stops

If you need such thoughts you can also take solace in the idea that karma will most certainly visit the other party and allow him or her to experience just what it feels like to be on the other end of such behavior

Better though to focus on other aspects of your life,, the positive ones

Ones you make positive even though your life might be hard

Learn to be the observer of yourself, remove yourself from the situation mentally

Again not easy however it is a great life skill to learn

For those of you with strong mental energy send the thought form to your tormentor that the action or behavior is unpleasant for him or her also

This might not be a familiar idea for many however it does over time work in a surprising number of cases

Send the focused idea to the other party that they really do not like their own behavior

That they do not like the disturbance they are creating

Over time this thought can cause the other to desist

Try it

You must though believe it to be possible because self doubt will remove the power of your thought form process

Sending thought forms to another is as old as man himself although in recent times we usually only experience this a thousand times a day in advertising and other manipulations

Change your life by changing your response to the situation