And how do you react?
When someone disagrees with you?
Are you defensive?
Do you argue?
Can you say "you are right"
Just that " you are right"
.
No preamble
No but, no justifications
Just "you are right"
Even if you think they are wrong
Even when you know they are wrong
Try it
As a test of emotional maturity it's not a bad one
It is very hard to say "you are right" when you know they are wrong
The act of doing so will show you things about yourself
One of them is, that after you have said it and some time has passed, notice how it doesn't matter
It really doesn't matter
Being right is not necessary to our self esteem
If we are sure of our position or facts then it really doesn't matter if someone wants to be right and insist on their point of view
Let them win
Let them be right
Allow yourself to smile
Let yourself be uninvolved
Free of the need to be right
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