Friday, July 24, 2009

Tension




Plays a role in all our lives

Body language too

Are you aware of the tension you show?

Watch tv or movies and notice the tension in peoples faces

Watch their body language

For example when the person you are talking to suddenly crosses their arms chances are that they do not agree with what you are saying

In a sense they are signalling that they no longer go along with you
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They do not agree with what you are saying
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Some say that body language is 65% of all communication between people and yet so few of us have ever studied this subject

Even if the figures are exaggerated body language plays an important role in our communications with others
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We meet, talk and communicate with people every day and yet we have never studied this
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Why would this be?
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Something that can help us understand what people are really thinking or feeling
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Funny that
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Are you able to read the small signs in others?
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Do you know the basic body language differences in different cultures?
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Worth learning more
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No courses are necessary just more focus on others
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Note the tensions
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Tension is not so easy to hide if you look closely
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Tells us volumes about each other
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And as we get over fifty it is etched on our faces
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No wonder some need plastic surgery, the better to try hiding
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Not just those lines
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Those characters
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Not so pretty
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Tension does so much to us in all ways not just physical but emotionally and mentally too as we have all experienced
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Learn to let it go
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Tension in others tells us so much learn about that too

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