Having

Notice how we use the word having
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Have a cigarette
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Have a drink
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Have something to do. 

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It is as if by having that we can find a stronger security.

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Whether this is of a material nature.
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By having possessions.

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Even where others are concerned we will say "having sex". 
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No matter how much you have.
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You are still alone.
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You still are left to deal with being alone.
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Never mind how much you have now you were born alone.
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Will die alone.
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Lets face it having is a poor substitute for strong relationships.

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Having is an illusion because at any moment all that you have can be taken away.

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At this point you might realise that you never really had anything.

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Might, but there again you might not, so pervasive is the use of the idea of owning.

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Which we so casually express by saying we have something.

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Having!

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When we stop and really think about it we can find that we already have everything.

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It's just not a thing though.
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It's all on the inside
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Being a part of nature. 
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Having on the other hand is being separate from whatever it is you think you have..
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Get it?
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Having is on the outside and anything on the outside is not yours to have.
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On the inside on the other hand you can have it all.
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Do already did you but know it.